hard work + weight loss = success

Wondering if I lost some weight, would I have more success in finding a job?! just thinking the employers group insurance would be affected not only cause I’m over weight but also a former smoker. With weight being the issue at hand. I need this to be a successful(In both my job search and weight loss). I’m noticing lots of women and men getting in shape and those same people seem to be doing well in their professional life. Think bout it!!! Many people equate “fat” with lazy. I’m just saying that can be the reason you’re not getting the job.

No kids allowed…

 Nowadays, there is no censorship for our children. I can’t imagine being a parent of a young child and having him read the content that I share on any social networking site (I don’t accept child friend request). I remember growing the “B” word wasn’t said on television. What happened? I’m afraid of what the future holds.

a couple of years ago i met a kid that would tell you were to stick it and how fast to get there. he was 6 years old and didn’t know his alphabet. he seem to be too aware of the “streets”and had no academic smarts. You ask how much can a 6 year know??? you’d be surprised. his parent didn’t censor anything they did or said in his presence. Cursing around child seems to be the norm, so don’t be surprised when some of that language comes your way. I’m just saying, let’s try to raise our child to be respectable adults.

GUIDES AND ILLSTRATION TO HELP IN HABITS…

 THAT OLD FOOD PYRAMID

I JUST WANT TO KNOW IF ANYONE REALLY USED THESE THIS AS A GUIDE. I CAN’T IMAGINE SOMEONE USING THE PYRAMID ILLUSTRATION UNLESS IT WAS YOUR JOB.  AS A TEENAGER I WORKED FAST FOOD JOBS AND ATE IT FOR BREAKFAST, LUNCH, AND BROUGHT HOME DINNER.I HAD GAINED 60 POUNDS IN THE FIRST 6 MONTHS BEING EMPLOYED BY McDONALD’S.  I THOUGHT MY WEIGHT WAS OUT OF CONTROL THEN.  

MONEY, MONEY, MONEY!!!

IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT AND HOW YOU THING OF MONEY. IT’S ESSENTIAL IN THIS LIFE. I KNOW I’M NOT SAYING ANYTHING THAT MANY OF US DON’T ALREADY KNOW BUT I JUST THINK OF HOW MANY OBSTRUCTIONS THAT KEEP US FROM OBTAINING AND ATTAINING WHAT LIFE HAS TO OFFER. GOOD PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES WITH MONEY… OPEN FOR DISCUSSION. PLEASE LEAVE A COMMENT. LET ME KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT PEOPLE BEING UNABLE TO CARE FOR THEIR FAMILIES DUE TO THEIR CREDIT SCORE.

TMI (TO MUCH IMFORMATION)

I JUST STARTED THIS BLOG AND WILL BE SHARING SOME OF MY POST ON FACEBOOK. BECAUSE I HAVE A BIG MOUTH AND LEAVE NOTHING UNSAID; I MAY RUN INTO SOME ISSUES OF REPETITION. I GET A KICK OUT OF VALIDATION AND RECOGNITION. SO I THINK THIS IS THE RIGHT PLACE FOR ME. SO, PLEASE FORGIVE ME. ** FOR THE PAST 3 YEARS I HAVE NOT BEEN THE LUCKIEST EXPECT FOR BEING A PARENT. IN APRIL 2009 I HAD JUST CELEBRATED MY 30th BIRTHDAY AND FELT LIKE I HAD NOT ACCOMPLISHED IN MY LIFE WHAT I HAD SET OUT TO BECOME. OH, I HAD AN EMPTINESS THAT I THOUGHT NO ONE COULD FILL. I HAVE A JOB BUT, I WANTED A CAREER . I HAD A NEW CAR BUT,  IT WASN’T A BMW.   I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHOM DIDN’T RESPECT ME. I WANTED TO BE A MOTHER AND HAD TOLD MYSELF I DONT WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN AFTER THE AGE OF 30.  YES, I HAD BECOME A “CRAZY BITCH”!!! WHO WOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT EVERYTHING THAT I COMPLAINED ABOUT WOULD CHANGE FOR BETTER AND WORST.  LIKE A LADDER OR STAIRS THAT I HAD CLIMBED UP; I NOW WAS FALLING. DOWN EACH STEP AND LEVEL HAD BECOME A PAINFUL, DRAMA FILLED EVENT. TO MAKE THIS LONG STORY SHORT. I HAD A CHILD, LOST MY JOB, ENDED A 4 YEARS RELATIONSHIP, MOVED OUT OF MY MOTHERS HOME INTO MY OWN, WENT TO SCHOOL AND FINISHED, LOST MY LICENSE AND CAR IN THE SAME MONTH, WAS EVICTED (NOT IN THAT ORDER)… SO HERE I AM TODAY TRYING TO CLIMB OUT OF THE PIT OF HELL… ( SMILING)